Help, fog lights out!

Hey, I’m new here! I’ve been searching online to see what my issue could be but haven’t found anything that has helped.. yet

2015 4Runner sr5
Bought it recently and the fog lights never worked. The guy I bought it off said he replaced the multi-switch (on the steering column) but that didn’t do anything.

-I don’t have power at the pigtails (bulbs are good).

-I’ve checked the fuses under the dash (fog and tail- apparently they’re related) they’re good

- I’ve checked the pin connector going to the combo-switch and grounded the pins, all lights work accept fogs (which also tells me it’s not the combo-switch because I’ve bypassed it.

- im not sure if this is related but my high-beams are also acting strange: when I pull on the switch the high-beams work, but when I push the stock forward(to permanently engage high-beams) I don’t get anything.

I don’t have any diagrams and I’m not sure which relays are involved in the circuit. When I turn on the fog lights from the switch I’m not hearing any click from a relay.

any help would be greatly appreciated! TIA!