2022 4runner TRD OR with Bilstein

Hey all, completely new to 4runner,
I've had f-150 with 4" lift and 33" tires in the past for our family camper but sold the camper and didn't need a truck so recently traded in for 2022 TRD OR.


I'm guessing the suspension questions have come up a lot on this forum but after doing some massive searching, I thought it'd be good to seek for some advice. I've made a lot of errors and mistakes when I had my f-150 so for the 4runner I'd like to do it right from the beginning.

90% of the time I'll be on the road but I plan to do some off-roading (nothing crazy, nor rock crawling).

Currently, I'm looking at Bilstein 6112 for the fronts and either 5100 or 5160 for the rear depending on when 5160 comes back in stock. I do plan on getting new wheels and tires in 285-70-17. Looking at the entire kit on Bilstein website, it has options for rear coil springs; 1", 1.5" and 2". My guess is that it raises the rear to adjust to the front height?
If I set my front height to 1.6" or 2.0", which coil spring should I go with?

I'd really appreciate if I could get some help or even someone's write-up on a similar set up.
Thank you!

 

Here's a bit of info:

https://trail4runner.com/2019/02/09/bilstein-5160-complete-guide-review/

 

I currently have that set up and I love it! 6112’s w/2.5” lift in the front and 5160’s with 1.5” rear coils. Running 285/70r17. Will you be adding a bunch of weight in the rear?