Ideas and Recommendations for New Build

Hey everyone,
I’m starting the build process on my 2003 limited 4runner and was looking for some recommendations on different lifts and wheels. Right now, i’m looking at different bilstein 5100 3 inch lift kits, those seem to be popular. I’ve also seen some people use OMEs or Dobinsons kits. I want to be able to fit 33s on it after the lift too. I’m new to this whole thing so i’m not sure which ones are better. I don’t plan to go off-roading too much but would still like to be able to maybe once a month. Now for the wheels I really dont know what to get, but I know I want them to be black. Would love some recommendations on that. They’ll probably be either 16 or 17s. Here’s what it looks like now, I’ve only taken off the running boards, added window visors, and installed a new audio system with sub:

 

Here is my build but I'm 2wd so some things are different. Are you wanting a mild lift that budget friendly or going full out? and what kind of offroading are you expecting to do? To fit 33's you will have to cut inside the fenders are cut them completely I suggest getting different wheels also I have -12 offset wheels with no rubbing anywhere I highly recommend Cooper STT Pro tires I haven't gotten stuck once but they are little noisey if you don't want a super aggressive tread Falken is a great tire