Drivers side main light wiring

I was installing some aftermarket lights, well… in doing so I was Messing with the wiring to the main headlight 4 prong plug … I am not sure if I put the wires back correctly and didn’t take a pic… ugh! Can someone tell me if the red wire or the black wire goes in the location in the plug closest to the marker light side of car??? It has 3 wires.. the red, black and a colored one on the bottom row.. well the top row .. can’t remember which spot was which.. and I can’t find a pic or wiring diagram online. Anyone have a pic of the back of this plug wiring (driver side light) for the 2023 Toyota 4runner SR5 premium??

 

This thread/diagram may help: https://www.4runners.com/threads/we...-side-front-and-back-doors.13835/#post-164420

 

@barracho loco… hahahaha… uh, yea.. those are part of a dragon wing.. but that was funny!!
Actually… I think I was overthinking this.. obviously it would have to match the vehicle main connector!!! I will just look at the wiring color on that and they should match!! Right?!?
(Pic of the main connection from runner)

 

Sorry about that. I posted the wrong link. That (I think) is the 02/Oxygen Sensor. I think it's the upstream or upper?

 

Anyone able to verify if I have this wired correctly?